"Get dressed!" - "Tidy your room!" - and the verbal sparring has begun. Björn von Busch shows you how to avoid typical arguments: with words that really resonate with your child.
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Over 50 real-life family scenarios · Immediately applicable
The AHHa Effect in three steps
No instruction manual for perfect children. A simple method you can use immediately during your next argument.
Step 1
Eye
Observe without judging or attacking. Look first, then speak.
Step 2
Heart
Name feelings and needs – yours and your child's.
Step 3
Hand
Formulate a request instead of giving an order. And immediately the tone shifts.
What's inside
● Over 50 real-life family scenarios – from tidying up to brushing teeth
● A concrete wording for each case that you can try out directly
● Easy to learn, no prior knowledge or theoretical baggage required
The three biggest worries – and what the book does about them
Almost every family is familiar with these three moments. For each of them, the AHHa effect provides a concrete formulation that you can try out directly.
"I scream too often – and regret it immediately."
Step 1 starts exactly there: observe without judging. Describing what one sees first takes the edge off the moment – before it escalates.
★★★★★
Alica S.
"Everything turns into a power struggle – getting dressed, tidying up, brushing teeth."
That's exactly what the more than 50 examples in the book are for: for each of these everyday situations, a ready-made request is available instead of a command.
★★★★★
Frances B.
"My child shuts down as soon as I say something."
Step 2 reverses that: first, name the feelings and needs. Children listen when they feel seen.
★★★★★
Angelika P.
For Parents by Parents
Just give it a try – you'll be amazed how quickly the atmosphere at home changes.
